The Plan: Retire & achieve "Needgreater" status (Ecuador, Colombia, Peru?)
("I love it when a plan comes together." Hannibal Smith, The"A" Team)

Sunday, January 1, 2017

2016- Gone But Not Forgotten...

Wow!
2016 flew by so fast, it still feels like January.
Oh right- it is January. But January 2017.
So because I neglected my blog all year, I thought I would write just one all-encompassing post to cover all of the 2016 highlights.
Lots of treats at the Pioneer Party
Silverado Pioneers
January- This is when we like to have our pioneer party, and as we have 16 plus a dozen elders, it makes for a rousing good time with plenty of food.
 As usual, we had our circuit assembly in St George, Utah, attended by 3000 happy, smiling faces.

Brother Joe, sister-in-law Rhonda, nephews, mother, JW & SW
March- My brother and his wife came from Alabama to see me and their two boys (my nephews) who live here in Vegas. They even brought my 84 year-old mom out to stay with us for a week. Even though they’ve been here before, they had never been to Valley of Fire State Park (about an hour out of town) so he headed out for a taste of the outdoors and a picnic. There is some spectacular scenery there as you can see from the photos. Some of it is so alien-looking that scenes from Star Trek movies have been filmed there. 
What planet is this?


Distinctive arch, Valley of Fire

Shirley & Phoebe, Valley of Fire


Family picnic, Valley of Fire
Petroglyphs (above) and wildlife (below)






Shirley talking to speaker, Aaron Dana
Memorial crowd find their seats
Memorial Season- Definitely the year's highlight.
We always try to bring in a Bethel speaker so the congregation gets to see a new face giving the talk. This year we had Aaron Dana, whose parents are in the Silverado congregation. Aaron even has an Ecuador connection as his wife Savannah’s parents (Elam’s) live in Atuntaqui where I used to go in field service every Tuesday. Small world.
He did a great job and we had some festivities afterwards.
A week or so later we had the special talk which I was privileged to give. Now that the Branch has green-lighted using graphics on our parts, I had about 30 slides prepared with the talk which really heightened the impact. The pictures look amazing on our two 70” TV’s.
Giving the Special Talk- with pictures
July- As we got into summer, things quieted down a bit. Nobody wants to expend too much energy when it’s 112 outside. In July we enjoyed our regional convention, once again in St George, the same facility (college gymnasium) where we have our circuit assemblies. The Branch went all out on the videos this year. Looks like it may be a regular thing from here on out.
Jesse & Shirley hanging out at the Regioal
Gym transformed into Regional assembly



Young Silverado sister gets baptized- meet, dunk, and thank you, brother!

Lining up for those choice gym seats at St. George Regional

August was a little more stressful than usual...
Jesse & mom indulging in beignets at Panini Pete's, Fairhope, AL

...due to the fact that my brother called from Alabama to tell me our mom was having dizzy spells and was falling down. She banged her head on the counter and had to go to the hospital. So we’ve come to that time of life that all adult children with aging parents have to face- how to take care of the folks.
It was pretty obvious that at age 84, it wasn’t safe for mom to live alone anymore. So we flew down to Alabama, and in a series of events that I can only attribute to Holy Spirit and an answer to prayer, she was well-situated in less than a week.
Unbelievably, there was an exceptional assisted-living facility just a couple of miles from her home that had one apartment left. We moved here out, cleaned up the house and put it up for sale. Yes it was a change for her, but she got to take her little dog and enough of her cherished possessions to make the studio apartment feel like home. In fact, one of the local elders and his wife already lived there, so she has built-in transportation to the meetings.
There’s a nurse on staff to make sure she takes her meds and three meals a day in the dining room as well as maid service. Hope I’ll have it as good when I’m her age. And of course, since she’s been in that congregation for 50 years or so, she gets plenty of company. I can tell when I talk to her on the phone that she’s doing a lot better now. And she hasn’t fallen once since she moved.
September- towards the end of the month, the unrelenting heat finally starts to recede. It’s unbelievable how refreshing the 90’s can be after months in the 100’s. September also means circuit assembly time, so we trucked back to St George for the 3rd time this year and enjoyed another spiritual feast.

October-  the highlight was not only did Bob Dylan win the Nobel Prize for literature, but he gave
Waiting for the show to start at the Cosmopolitan, Las Vegas
a concert at the Cosmopolitan in Las Vegas the very same day. I won’t bore you with details of my 50+ years of admiration for Dylan and his skills (you either like him or you don't, which is why I went alone LOL), but I will say that after seeing him 20 or so times over the past 40 years, this was one of his best shows. Not bad for a 75 year old.
Okay enough of the hero worship. The fall of the year means college football season. I grew up in Alabama, 
JW & nephew Jamison. Roll Tide.

so the Crimson Tide is the only team that matters. Fortunately, they’re almost always among the best. Yes I know it’s superficial and meaningless to most of the world’s population, but everybody needs some recreation, and mine is watching Alabama football on Saturday after service. (Have to be balanced) For me, the NFL comes in a distant second, but the added bonus this year is that the Dallas Cowboys, my favorite pro team is finally out of the doldrums and backing to winning games.
Witnesses & food always go together.
The fall of the year also happens to be party (get-together) time, great for congregation picnics and dress-up graduation parties. I'll miss the friends for sure when I move away.
Finally, in the fall it's cool enough to have a congregation picnic.


One of our sisters just graduated high school and invited all to come dressed as their favorite decade.


December- this year we actually had FOUR assemblies, because the circuit assembly we normally have in January was held on December 31. It was encouraging as always with FAITH as the theme. The only downer is that our next assembly (Regional Convention) won’t be until August 2017, so we have a long wait.
All in all a pretty good year. Not much sickness, nobody in the congregation or the family passed away, and I still have a job.
One great thing about it being 2017 is that now, when talking about retirement (meaning leaving secular work for full-time spiritual) I can say “next year” because 2018 will definitely bring a change in circumstances.
Can’t wait.
It may not rain much in Vegas, but we get some great rainbows when it does.










Tuesday, December 1, 2015

Sweet Home Alabama!



Even though I’ve lived out in the desert southwest for many years, I originally grew up in Mobile, Alabama, down on the Gulf Coast. I like to get back from time to time to visit my mother, brother, sister, and many of my spiritual brothers & sisters that I’ve known since I was in elementary school.
After visiting friends and family, the number #1 priority is food.
A visit to the Waffle House is a must
Fresh raw oysters at Winchell's Oyster House

Being on the coast, the seafood in the markets and restaurants was swimming in the Gulf just a few hours before it hits your plate. I’m always game for some raw oysters on the half shell, a fried oyster & shrimp po’ boy sandwich, some gumbo and probably some red snapper and grouper. Top it off with mullet & grits for breakfast.


Shrimp Boil at my brother's house
Besides seafood, there is the cuisine that the rest of the country so quaintly likes to call “soul food”, but in the South, we just call “food”.
Collards, fried chicken, okra, pecan pie- throw in breakfast at the Waffle House, and maybe some beignets from a local cafĂ©- it’s culinary overload.  Somehow it just doesn’t taste the same in Las Vegas.


Essential tableware
Beignet's with my mother & sister
My mother lives across Mobile in a small artsy-crafty town called Fairhope. Her house is only a couple of blocks from the bay, and it’s great to walk down in the evening and catch the sunset over the water.


Fresh beignet's at Panini Pete's

Funny how remnants of the war (the Civil War) are scattered about. At the mouth of Mobile Bay still sit the two forts (Gaines & Morgan) that guarded the entrance, but succumbed to the Yankee hordes at the battle of Mobile Bay.
Windy day at Fort Morgan
A few miles north of where my mother lives is the site of old Blakely, where the last skirmish of the war was said to be fought, and the Confederate earthworks still stand. Scattered about are gravestones from the 1840’s and 1850’s when yellow fever ravaged this region. There are still plenty of mosquitos around, along with multitudes of other insect life, but at least a bite won’t kill a person.
We were there during Thanksgiving week in November, a particularly good time when daytime temps are usually in the 60’s to 80’s, with very little humidity. After all these years in the desert, I know better than to go back in the summer when 90% humidity means you walk around soaking wet even when the sun is out.
Kingdom Hall in Foley, Alabama
3 congregations meet here
We made the usual rounds to see all the old friends. Funny how my teenage companions are all grandparents now. People from that region don’t tend to move much (I was one of the exceptions), so whenever I go back, it’s like a big reunion. Sadly the Mobile Convention Center where I got baptized when it was new in 1966 is scheduled to be torn down. We had assemblies there for a lot of years, but better facilities are used now.
The can of cane syrup went to Vegas in checked luggage, but the collards were fixed for that night's dinner.





The only drawback is that November is a little chilly for swimming in the Gulf, although usually the water is fairly warm up into October. So I’m thinking about a 2016 visit a little earlier in the year so I can really enjoy those white sand beaches and turquoise Gulf waters. (Yes the Alabama beaches are one of the best kept secrets in the country. We try not to spread it around too much to keep the crowds down.)

And as always....

ROLL TIDE!

Photos of Ft. Blakely, site of last battle of the Civil War:

  

Confederate fortifications still stand
Hiking trail along Mobile river
Boardwalk keeps hikers above the swamp
Facilities are top-notch
Historical graves are plentiful
Weird trees are everywhere

Mark & I have only known each other for more than 50 years

Thursday, July 30, 2015

A Wedding in HAWAII (no, not mine!)


What is it about swaying palm trees, soft ocean breezes, turquoise water, and soft sandy beaches that just screams out “Paradise!”
That feeling is never more pronounced than when you get on a plane leaving one of the most desolate places on earth (the Mojave Desert) and exit six hours later into unimaginable beauty and richness- Hawaii.
For us desert dwellers, the experience is essentially sensory overload. All this greenery, all this color. Air that is soft, warm, and moist. To go from 7% humidity to 90% in just a few hours is almost more than the human body can handle.

Another happy couple!

So what brought us to Hawaii in July you ask?
It was all due to the largess of my nephew Jamison, oldest son of my only brother (Joe Bill). He and his fiancée live in Vegas, but wanted a low-key wedding on a Hawaiian beach, after which they would continue on to Japan for their honeymoon. Of course he wanted his favorite uncle (me) to give the wedding talk, so he flew Shirley and me out to Oahu, as well as his parents. Joe & Rhonda.

Expensive? Maybe. But still less than hosting the 150 or so attendees at the usual Vegas Witness wedding. Attendance at the beach wedding? 14. 

The beach/jungle setting looked oddly familiar, and no wonder. “Jurassic Park” and the TV series “Lost” were both filmed in the vicinity, as well as a number of other shows.

So I hustled up and got legal to perform weddings in Hawaii. (Note to readers: If anyone out there is planning on getting married in Hawaii and you need someone to give the wedding talk, my schedule is open.)

Shirley at Diamond Head

Jamison & Jesse- Pre-Wedding

We arrived Saturday, July 25 after a 6 hour direct flight from Vegas on Hawaiian Air. 

(Hawaiians refer to Las Vegas as the “9th Island” because almost everyone has a relative who lives there, and it’s their favorite vacation destination.) 

Two hours later we were on Waikiki Beach and swimming in the warm Pacific. The 115 degree heat we left behind in Vegas was only a distant memory.

Sunday Shirley and I got up early and rode the bus out to Diamond Head where we climbed to the top and survey the magnificent views. Then we rested up for the 4 PM wedding which was taking place over on the windward side of Oahu, more rural and far less populated than Honolulu.
Everything went smooth with the wedding and the meal at Jill’s (Jamison’s wife) uncle’s house, which sat on a hill overlooking the ocean. No heat or air necessary- the ocean breezes blow all the time. I particularly admired the neighbor’s mango tree which was loaded with (sadly still green) mangos.

Rob, Joe, Jamison & Jesse

After that it was time to check into our beach bungalow in the small town of Waimanalo. The following week would prove to be incredibly fun, and was over all too soon.

I'll just let the pictures do the talking.

High Fivin' the Sumo Guy



                                                 Joe almost gets knocked over by the win at Pali lookout


La'ie Point

                                                    Waikiki & Diamond Head





Turtle at Turtle Beach, & snorkeling at Hanauma Bay

Kingdom Hall at Ka'a'awa


Kingdom Hall at Waimanalo

At the Shore Bird in Waikiki, you cook your own


Roll Tide!


Flowers, Flowers, everywhere....




Sunset on Waikiki